叶允楠 人文学院2014级
In my short term of life,many people passed as stranggers,some became my friend in a short term,few become great memories that I do not want to say goodbye.
Oliver.Wang is one of my close friends.As a Chinese graw up in Cannada,to others’ surprise,he can speak Chinese without accent unlike many banana men.He is not a half-blood Chinese so that students in our hige school ignored he came from Canada and it was his first time to come back to his motherland.Black eyes as if two black pearls are the stand of his nation .A pair of traditionnal glasses makes him look like a docter.
The chance makes us hold strong connection is English.Though Oliver can speak Chinese well,he preferred to combine some Engilsh words in his words.So most students think he is a strange students who is neither a Chinese nor a Canandian.He did not like Chinese-style lunch because the soya sauese is too salty and make dishes looks ugly.To help him adapt to the new life,I always go with him and talk him about the Chinese food and Canadian seafoods.Then we became good friends until he returned Canada.
Oliver is a lantern for me.Until he came,banana man is a word I do not like.In most people’view,they are betrayers for China and they worked for other countries.As a matter of fact,they are living in a crack between two countries.The motherland is what they are looking forward to.but they can not accept the society in their motherland.They are not betrayers .They are men who do not have hometown forever.
Nowadays,people prefer to travel with friends or a play a tag team match in basketball playground.The money spends in preparing a cosplay play is more than the cost in reading and buying books.The point came that we learn by doing,and learn best from first-hand and concrete experinences,using our senses,exploring our environment of people,things,places and events.
In my view,reading is not only activities to get ready to pass exams.It is a travel through your life.The aim is unimaginable,unstable,the train will stop in a station when you1do not want to go along,and the travel comes to an end because the train will not come again.The final station of trains is knowledge itself,the stem of human being which can explaim the reason of each events and theories like love ,death ,life and world.But most people willstop travelling in a short distance from first station because the beauty botheside is more attractive than take a train which do not have a clear aim.That is why most people like to learn by doing and experiencing.because reading is a way of digging out the theory of the whole world,not leading you to explore the world in detail.
Reading can help you know the stem of problems,talking with the famous and asking them problems that terrified you for a long time.When you feel puzzled about a economical problem,John. Nash and Adam.Smith will tell you real reason if you read their books ,nor look for the way to achieve the anwsers yourself.You can stand in the shoulders of giants and see the scene far away.You do not need to hold a lantern in the darkness because the sun has risen.
So I want to tell everybody that reading is not only for examing,but also for the length and deepth of your life.You will say goodbye to a life in the darkness and face a new life the sun always in the sky.
Why you phubbing?
Up to now,many people use mobile phone and pad in buses,parties,dinners.They are busy in the social net to communicate with friends whom you may never meet before,chatting,laughing by words and masks.We called that kind of person the phubbing.
The usesrsof Twitter ,WeChat,QQ is growing,the mobilephone we use is more and more colorful in apps.Nevertheless we find admosphere in the parties become cooler and cooler.The voice of pressing the scream of phone is the only voice in parties.Because your friends think the talk and zone in the social net are more interesting than the real world.Why?because in the social net we always show our beautiful side to people in the social net.An ugly girl will use PS system to draw their pictures cute which will be showed in their personnel zone.So an ugly girl become a godness in other the phubbing’s eyes.It is why the phubbing is growing.
The phubbing is a commom syndrome in the growing society.The colorful social net is so attractive so that no one can say no to it except someone do not use Internet.But we must know that when we wear a earphone,chatting with friends on the Internet ,it means we ignore the beauties of the real world .We chatted with friends in the net ,however,the persons help us most are close friends and ralatives in the real world.As you swim in the Internet longer and longer from shores,you will find you are suffering from longliness which goes with you.Oneday you lost your mobilephone and pad,you can not find a new way to spend your time.
Once you close your phone and computer,go out to take a tea.You will find the real world is more colorful than sacial net.Because the person you talk with is real and fullof feature ,they can hold your hands and chear with you.When you come to sea a wrestling match in a sport center,you can find the match is more interesing than seeing a video.So ,Say goodbye to social net and phubbing , face the real society,you can see a world you seldom see a long time before.
(编校：张新民 张敏)
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